Women (and people AFAB) have it tough because of the intersection between mysogeny/sexism and agism/ablism (I believe agism is just a form of the intense ablism of our society). Both of these prejudices work together to push us aside, render us invisible, and create the impulse in others to want to police our bodies and lives.
It's rough. All we can do is keep finding our power and being our authentic selves and knowing ultimately that will force change