This is a great article, really well articulated. Here's the thing, though, to get really nuanced:
1. Only straight, white, cis, able bodied, wealthy, etc women think there is such a thing as a "Female Socialization." Its a very privileged POV and they need to accept that isnt a thing
2. In reality, we dont even understand what female is. Ask any biologist. Ask the olympics (who continually fail to be able to define it). So it all breaks down when really looked at. In some ways woman is easier to define than female, but that is because our view of gender is so, so constricted. Once we start looking at that, it breaks down too
3. There is a long, sad, unfortunate history of people with more privlidge being fearful that inclusion=loss. Of course it's the direct opposite! But how do we better socialize people to understand this?
4. I think we should stop calling anti-trans or trans-phobic people feminists. They aren't.

Just my thoughts for the day. Keep on writing!