The answer to the question is yes, there are plenty of awesome men who would want you over a 24 year old pretty young woman who doesnt yet know who she is. Just as you want a man who isnt interested in that kind of relationship. Dont let your ex hold a mirror up to you anymore. He doesn’t have the credentials to give you an accurate reflection of who you are or how desirable you are. Find people who are awesome who’s opinions you trust and stick with them. Then, if you want a romantic relationship, go find it with someone who reflects your awesomeness back to you.