Hi Teresa. Thank you for your feedback I have edited both of my comments and I hope that makes them feel less judgmental. Believe me, I am aware shame does nothing to help people live a healthier, happier life. I appreciate your invitation to publish an article, I will think about doing that. (And I feel compelled to add that it is not simply a personal choice, as it does deeply impact others, which is what I was trying to say. Eating an ice cream cone is simply a personal choice. Drinking and driving isn't. I don't say that in judgment, only that people try to rationalize away this aspect of the choice and it's important )